Father Too Busy
President David O. McKay


 
A son of Bishop John Wells was killed in Emigration Canyon on a railroad track ... Sister Wells was inconsolable. She mourned during the three days prior to the funeral, received no comfort at the funeral, and was in a rather serious state of mind. One day, soon after the funeral services, while she was lying on her bed relaxed, still mourning, she says that her son appeared to her and said, "Mother, do not mourn, do not cry. I am all right." He told her that she did not understand how the accident happened and explained that he had given the signal to the engineer to move on, and then made the usual effort to catch the railing on the freight train; but as he attempted to do so his foot caught on a root and he failed to catch the hand rail and his body fell under the train. It was clearly an accident. Now listen! He said that as soon as he realized that he was in another environment he tried to see his father but he couldn't reach him. His father was so busy with the duties in his office that he could not respond to his call. Therefore, he had come to his mother. He said to her, "You tell father that all is well with me and I want you not to mourn any more." President McKay made the statement that the point he had in mind was that when we are relaxed -in a private room we are more susceptible to whisperings of the Spirit and that so far as he was concerned, his best thoughts come after he gets up in the morning and is relaxed and thinking about the duties of the day; that impressions come more clearly, as if it were to hear a voice. Those impressions are right. If we are worried about something and upset in our feelings, the inspiration does not come. If we so live that our minds are free from worry and our conscience is clear and our feelings are right toward one another, the operation of the Spirit of the Lord upon our spirit is as real as when we pick up the telephone.

("Prayer" [address delivered to seminary and institute faculty], Brigham Young University [Provo, 6 July 1956], pp. 14-16)


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