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The Teachings of Spencer W. Kimball, p. 286. Extreme styles
betray character weakness. Our young people should know also that
it is hard for them to hide their upbringing, their inner thoughts,
their weaknesses. There is nothing criminal about grammatical
errors or careless speech or even slang. But such do reveal the
character of the user and reflect upon his home life. It may be
an unwarranted and weak demand for attention which one feels powerless
to stir otherwise. The chewing of gum in public certainly
gives no suggestion of culture or refinement and certainly will
not build confidence in or esteem for the one who indulges. Inappropriate
clothes, extreme makeup, fantastic hairdos, gum chewing, slang,
ugly speech, bad table manners, and other such irregularities
brand the individual at once as weak, uncouth, cheap or careless,
and thoughtless, and his family is judged by his weaknesses.
Elder Delbert L. Stapley, "The Sacrament," BYU Speeches
of the Year, 8 May 1956, pp. 5-6. In partaking of the sacramental
emblems, we should always call to mind Christ's suffering and
sacrifice, the death upon the cross, the faithful obedience to
his appointed mission. The sacrament is so sacred that it is recommended
during the sacramental services, that no music be played, nor
should there be any distractions whatsoever during the service.
It is a time for meditation, a time for resolve, not a time for
visiting, nor the chewing of gum, as so many people do,
nor permitting our minds to dwell upon other things foreign to
the sacred ordinance of the sacrament itself.