Using Free Will AND Being Directed By the Spirit
It is not,
never has been, and never will be the design and purpose of the
Lord-however much we seek him in prayer- to answer all our problems and
concerns without struggle and effort on our part. This mortality is a
probationary estate. In it we have our agency. We are being tested to
see how we will respond in various situations; how we will decide
issues; what course we will pursue while we are here walking, not by
sight, but by faith. Hence, we are to solve our own problems and then
to counsel with the Lord in prayer and receive a spiritual confirmation
that our decisions are correct. ("Why the Lord Ordained Prayer," Ensign,
Jan. 1976, p. 11)
Neal A. Maxwell
Because the divine maxim is "nevertheless, thou mayest choose for thyself" (Moses 3:17), we are to learn to choose responsibly, yet in doing this we need help. We also need help regularly. The plan of salvation is designed to facilitate our learning to choose wisely when we opt for righteousness and eternal life instead of misery and death (2 Nephi 2:27).
In the early days of the Church, there were several petitions to the Lord to which He responded in a tutoring manner. On one occasion, the brethren needed a watercraft. The Lord responded that whether they made one or bought one, "it mattereth not to me" (D&C 61:22). It did matter to the Lord that some "take their journey speedily" (D&C 52:7).
In like manner, a question arose as to whether they should go by land or water. The Lord said they should do "according to their judgments" (D&C 61:22). A similar divine response was given to the question of whether some of the brethren should go in a group or two by two; they were told this was something for them to determine. On another occasion, as to the direction in which they should proceed, the Lord said whether it was east or west or north or south, it didn't matter; they could not go amiss, because so many opportunities awaited (D&C 80:3).
These
incidents do not suggest any divine indifference whatsoever as to
details. Rather, they illustrate how the mentoring of the Lord will
surely guide us, but He expects us to use our own minds reliably and to
develop them even further in our capacity to choose. Experience,
therefore, can be a workhorse way of learning, as we develop our
capacity to choose wisely under the influence of the Spirit. (The
Promise of Discipleship, pp. 100-101)
Dallin H. Oaks
We are
often left to work out problems, without the dictation or specific
direction of the Spirit. That is part of the experience we must have in
mortality. Fortunately, we are never out of our Savior's sight, and if
our judgment leads us to actions beyond the limits of what is
permissible and if we are listening to the still small voice, the Lord
will restrain us by the promptings of His Spirit. (Quoted in L. Lionel
Kendrick, "Personal Revelation," Ensign, Sept. 1999, p. 10)
L. Lionel Kendrick (Seventy)
Frequency
of revelation. It is a misconception to believe that we should consult
Heavenly Father on every matter in life. He expects us to solve a
portion of our problems without petitioning Him for potential
solutions. It is through this process that we grow, develop, and become
more perfect. He is not always concerned about mundane matters unless
they are not in keeping with sacred principles. We should daily
petition for the companionship of the Holy Ghost. With this presence of
the Spirit, we will feel the promptings without petitioning Heavenly
Father on every personal matter. ("Personal Revelation," Ensign,
Sept. 1999, p. 10)
See also Bruce R. McConkie, "Agency or Inspiration"