Gender questions

The following are questions students posed to the opposite gender:

To Males	To Females
Why do guys always have to win? Why do guys brag so much when they get action? Why are guys afraid of commitment? Why do guys have a hard time expressing their feelings? Why do guys feel that they have to open doors for girls? What do you think your roles are/will be as a husband? Why is it hard for guys to admit it when they are wrong? Do males hold open doors because they were taught to do so or because they think the women want them to do so, or because they honestly fee we (females) deserve that extra pampering? Why does a guy assume that a girl likes them and wants to date them is she smiles or says hi in passing? She’s only saying Hi!!! Why do males act so immature as to act different around their guys? Like, why they have to act manly or “too cool”? If you spend 2 years of rejection on a mission, why are you so afraid to be rejected by a girl? Aren’t you used to it so it won’t be a big deal if you ask her out? Do men often want to cry at times but hold back only because they are men? Why is it so hard to express these feelings? Why are men afraid of commitment? What is your definition of a “high maintain ace” girl? Why do you say you like smart girls, but then always go for the dumb pretty ones? Are you really interested in sports so much (watching, playing football, basketball, etc), or do you just pretend to “love” it because you’re expected to? Why do you leave the toilet seat up? Why do men think that they do not have to or need to help around the house? What do guys honestly think about women? What is the number one quality a man would like a woman to have? Are guys afraid of commitment? Do guys feel pressure because they know they might have to provide for a family someday? Does it upset you if your wife makes more money than you? How do you feel about independent women? Why do you talk less? Why do you squeal your tires when you pull out of a parking lot? Does the way girls dress affect boys? If so, in what ways? Why are guys afraid of commitment? How come they’re afraid to show emotion? Why is it so hard for men to be the instigator in relationships? Do you truly believe in making your wife be your servant, wouldn’t you rather be by their side in everything? Do you want your sons to help out their mother? Do you want your daughters to be treated inferior by their husbands? Do guys feel the gospel/priesthood has re-socialized some of the dominant male traits and changed those to be more loving, tender and open to express? Why, in a relationship, do most guys change when they are with the guys, or just with the girl? Why do men have to work, have to have an education and woman can’t? Why do guys feel they have to play with girls’ minds? Why do guys here at BYU-Idaho feel that all girls are marriage hungry so they are afraid to even be friends? Do you feel it is wrong for a girl to be able to stand up for her self and not be the typical “girly-girl”? Do guys get freaked out when women ask them out? What signs do guys give when they like someone? Do you plan on ever making dinner or cleaning the house? Do you hate it when a girl beats you in a sport like basketball? Men say they want to marry wholesome women, but then they date all of the trashy girls and when they want to “settle down” they just assume that they deserve to marry someone that is wholesome. Why do they do this? Do you want to marry someone smarter or dumber than you? Why do you really think women should be less when what you’d think you’d want is an equal? Why is having power over someone so inviting to men when having true love would be much more exciting and fulfilling? What is the most important quality you want in your woman? What do you see as the most important thing you can do for a female? List some traits that you admire in other men. (Be Honest!) Why can you never give sympathy to us? At BYU-IDAHO, since the ratio is 2:3, why does that make it so the guys deviate from the traditional form of dating where the guy asks the girls out? It seems as if guys are lazy and wait for the girls to come to them. Explain your view.	What are the “signals” that a woman will give if she is interested in a man? How many days should a guy wait after a first date to call about a second date if he is interested? It has been my experience that women are more sensitive and expressive in many ways. Why is it as a majority that women never initiate romantic relationships? Why do females cross their legs when they sit down? I want to know why girls are not honest with guys? Why do girls worry about petty, little stupid things that do not matter? Why do girls give hints of what they want rather than being blunt; and how should we interpret these hints? (i.e.: dating scenarios) Why are women trying to be men? When will women understand that the kitchen is their place? Why do women play games with guys? Why do ladies play hard to get? Do women or students of the female gender want to get married?? For those girls who won’t call a guy or ask him our on a date…Why not? Are you jut prideful or what? Which is more attractive and appealing, a man who can openly express himself through music or a man who is athletically oriented? (Definitely the first one!) Do you want to be treated equally to men? Do you want to be treated as if you were a man? What is the difference between these questions? Why do so many women like to shop so much? Would you say that the majority of women enjoy shopping more than many other activities? Why are women so argumentative?! What is the one most desirable trait in a man? Is it a role that men have to play walking her to her door after a date? Sometimes, the girl or guy is afraid of getting kissed or just feeling uncomfortable. In what ways do you show a man you love him? How do you provide service in your marriage? Why do you think you are fully capable of working all day, away from the family, providing a living, but men can’t raise kids and do housework as well s you can? What do women look for in a potential husband? How does this differ from what they look for in a guy to date? (I know lots of women who like dating “bad-boy” types of guys, who do not treat them respectfully.) Why does it seem that girls seem to have more “kissing” experience than guys? How do you feel about ladies being on the front line in battle? Why are American women afraid of change? (In most other countries change in fashion and occupational choices in men are much more accepted. But in America, when a man deviates from the norm it is frowned on. Why?) Why are women so emotional for the most part? Do women want to be treated like royalty or like trash, because a lot of women really go for the jerks in the world (EX: Taken for granted, not appreciated, verbal abuse) Guys are very obvious with girls in the way they feel about them. Why can’t girls be more obvious about their feelings? If they were more obvious, guys wouldn’t feel pre-rejection feelings before initiation. Why do women focus on past events in a relationship instead of the present problems and trying to fix them? How many of you look down on a male, in any way, if he has some stereotypes considered “female” qualities, such ax being emotional or sensitive? Would you date a male that has these qualities and isn’t as “aggressive”, “dominant, or insensitive as most males are labeled? How much do you weigh? Do you feel like that’s all you’re supposed to be, a mother/homemaker? (Don’t you want to travel, teach, paint, dance, and sing and many other enjoyable things that would open your world and enrich it? Why are girls so confusing and unreasonable? Why do women think men should know what they want? (“If you don’t know what you did wrong, I’m not telling you”) Why do women want to talk at midnight? Why do women generally talk expressively more than men do? If women were to change roles with men (other than having kids), could they handle the pressure of providing for the family? Why do women strive to have more and more rights when they already seem to be equal? How many of you want to pursue a career after you start a family? (Have kids) Do you feel discriminated against often? Does discrimination really affect your important decisions in life? How many girls would like to be more like a man in one way or another? (Not have to sit down to pee?) Why is it okay for women to hold hands in society but the view is different for men? Should men always have to do such things as call for a date and pay for it? Why or why not?
What is your favorite thing to cook? Do you consider women to be weak? What do you really look for when dating a girl? What do you like to do when on a date? What would you do if your son wanted to be a ballet dancer? Why is it that even now men think that they can out do women when there are so many examples of women performing the same task just as good or better? Where does that mentality come from? What do you look for most in a girl you ask out? Do you as men feel any sort of intimidation by women with dominating personalities? Why are most guys so unwilling to admit when they are wrong? Why are guys retarded? Why are guys afraid to do “woman’s work”? Do you realize that is really all about your car? Do you honestly feel that women have gone too far and are no longer fulfilling the roles of a woman? Is marriage truly a 100% equal partnership or do you just say that? Are you going to talk to your wife about her jobs that you think she needs to do or just expect her to do it? Many guys say modesty is attractive, why is it that most guys will go for the girl wearing les? When deciding on which girls to date is ethnic background or race a factor? Why are guys so afraid to show any weakness? How does a girl know if/when a guy is serious and when they are not? Why are men so competitive? How much do guys truly want girls to pay for? (First date, second date, serious relationship…) Why do most men always have to drive? Why don’t guys ask girls out any more? Why can’t girls be stupid and immature like guys and not be made fun of? Why do guys always go for tall and blonde? Are males offended when a female has a higher role or office in a business? Why don’t men more openly show respect or even have respect for a woman’s role as wife, mother and homemaker? Are men as jealous/possessive as women? What are ways you feel women can better show respect and support for men and their roles-especially the roles of traditional Mormon males?
Why do you go for trashy girls? (If those aren’t the type of women you want to marry, why give them attention?) Why is it that guys hate losing to girls? Why do guys always want to define the relationship (DTR’s)? Do they really not know? Why can’t boys let down their pride, and admit they are wrong and say they are sorry? How many boys actually expect their wives to be the “perfect little homemakers”? Do guys talk about girls in their apartment? Would guys prefer a wife who works, or a wife who doesn’t work? Why don’t guys ask girls out on dates a lot anymore? Why are guys nice to you, but then when they get around their friends they act like jerks? Why can’t boys take a hint? Girls have to spell everything out! Why is it that when it comes to sports or hunting or such, boys have excellent aim, but when it comes to going to the bathroom, they pee all over the seat, sometimes they don’t even hit the toilet?! Why don’t men like to talk? Why do men wear such large clothing, like shirts that hit their knees? Why do guys like girls with long hair? Why don’t boys ask girls out on dates? It seems like girls are doing the boys’ job now days! Do guys feel that it is expected for girls to feed them if they happen to stop by the girls’ house right before dinner? Do they do this on purpose? What does a guy really look for in a girl? Why do guys hide their emotions? Why do guys make stupid and/or degrading remarks to girls? It’s not cute and it’s embarrassing. Why do you have to do that? Why do guys always say quotes from movies? It gets so old! What are some signs that a guy likes a girl? Why do men feel like they can’t cry? Why are men so aggressive and like violent movies? Why do men always seem to have the need to one-up other men? Are guys deep thinkers or are they really shallow? Why are guys so competitive?